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The ideal man is always looking for the woman who has real romantic tenancies, (which is most women) because this is the woman who will respond the most to typical male charm.

An almost careless comment, tossed her way can form the highest compliment to a romantic mind, a deep meaningful stare after your fingers 'accidentally' touch and a plethora of other small, almost intimate gestures which can be passed off as nothing if they're not welcomed (which of course by this time they will be).

The real art of seduction is more than something you're just "born with."  Art is something you can admire and learn from, it has nothing to do with natural talent.

Real seduction is all about understanding the woman and discovering what makes her tick.  Learning a woman's desires, needs, and passions can give you an in-road into escalating things romantically.

Who are you, really? Are you confident about yourself, your needs and desires? Do you think you are attractive? Most men have a lot less confidence in themselves than they allow others to realize.

The single best way I know of to step up your game is to build your own confidence.  Women find confident men irresistible, and the less confident you are, the harder it is to seduce a woman.

Confidence gives you the power to be a "strong man."  Strong men can remain calm and cool when adversity comes their way.  Most men are conditioned to turn tail and run due to fear of rejection.  But it's to the guys who throw caution to the wind that get the success.

Don't forget, a brave man will not live forever, but a cautious one will not live at all!

Look at yourself. What are your attractive features? Everyone has at least three.

Learning how to utilize your best features (even if you think you have none) is essential to successful seductions.  Whether it be your great attitude, full head of hair, or winning smile - whatever it is, you need to learn to work with what you got and capitalize on it!

We are always more critical of ourselves than others are of us.  Think of what women have previously found attractive about you.  Whatever it is you settle on, make that the forefront of your seduction.  If you have a great smile - smile at the girl a lot.  This can mean the difference between a successful seduction and a failure.

After you have pegged down your greatest assets, its time to bring them to the forefront and use them to seduce the girl you desire.  While interacting with her, draw attention to them.  Smile at her, make strong eye contact, throw out a joke or two - whatever you've determined are your most seductive attributes, use them!

Romance was mentioned in the beginning, and it's not something to be taken lightly! Some women just love romantic gestures and others don't.

Try and communicate your attraction to the woman without being too obvious.  Forcing your interest on a girl will force her to choose whether or not she feels the same way before you've had a chance to lay the groundwork.  You'll want to come in under the radar and work on building interest before you make a serious move.

When seducing a woman, you have to be willing to take a chance at failing.  Often times, being brave enough to flirt or say an off-color joke will give you the edge in making you stand out and heat up the interaction.

Seduction is all about taking your thoughts, feelings, actions, and ideas, and making them work for you to get a desired romantic outcome.

Don't leave anything to chance.  Plan ahead as much as possible.  Look at what your lady is responding to and what she isn't.  Pay attention.  Go with the flow, but stick to a game plan.  Don't force the seduction, but don't allow it to happen without your influence either.

Finally, don't be afraid to make your move when the time comes.  If you've done everything right, she'll be ready for you when you go in for the kiss.  If you've mastered the art of seduction, she may even be the one to make the move on you first!

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